tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2197085117116794403.post9150801693413934543..comments2015-06-21T02:26:14.170-04:00Comments on down the rabbit hole: Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2197085117116794403.post-83985380689413982602009-08-02T23:45:37.787-04:002009-08-02T23:45:37.787-04:00Very wise words Mr C. Thank you.Very wise words Mr C. Thank you.Alicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03027350217120088046noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2197085117116794403.post-1354723209436592902009-07-23T13:39:32.131-04:002009-07-23T13:39:32.131-04:00Lovingly written and with thought and compassion. ...Lovingly written and with thought and compassion. That is nice to see and no doubt of great satisfaction to the Gentleman concerned. Hence you are giving to him here are you not?<br /><br />As for 'He bears the burden of the decisions and direction that things will go.' Is it a burden for a dog to wag his tail, or a cat to stretch in the sun? Dominant people do what comes naturally, the burden would be to not have a loving, admiring, grateful, submissive girl to offer our gifts and abilities to.<br /><br />In my opinion these relationships work so well because, no matter what it might look like, we both offer the other what is needed.Mr.C.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06729467877042939674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2197085117116794403.post-66411320082621749082009-07-01T21:20:08.478-04:002009-07-01T21:20:08.478-04:00Thank you Paul and Sir J. It is so nice to get th...Thank you Paul and Sir J. It is so nice to get the dominant's perspective. J has expressed to me that I give him much more than I realize. That my importance is more than I know. <br /><br />I think that the glitch in my thinking comes from my past relationships. They were NOT power exchange relationships, but I gave much more than I ever received. Yet now I am in a power exchange relationship, which to me is an unequal relationship of equals (I think that m:e used that term) and I am receiving more than I ever have from anyone. It makes me pause and feel that I am not giving enough. This is not a complaint, it is a fact that humbles me. It is actually quite lovely.Alicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03027350217120088046noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2197085117116794403.post-43166598458603743832009-06-29T22:06:36.760-04:002009-06-29T22:06:36.760-04:00Alice, I agree with Paul, I think sometimes it is ...Alice, I agree with Paul, I think sometimes it is hard for subs to understand what it is dominants get out of the relationship. For me I thrive on taking care of her if she was not there I would wander aimlessly. She is the release in the sometimed sadistict games we play and the focus when I take care of her. To give me so much must be hard work.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2197085117116794403.post-73226424176467231192009-06-29T04:38:56.523-04:002009-06-29T04:38:56.523-04:00Alice, people in your situation often feel this.
F...Alice, people in your situation often feel this.<br />From my experience subs give much more than you realise, it's in your nature not to fully realise this.<br />Love and warm hugs,<br />Paul.Paulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03790580459962602757noreply@blogger.com